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Readers Email for the week of April 13, 2014

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Q: Dear Eugenia, A: Dear Wondering Libran,

Nearly a year ago, I experienced a great change in my life. My parents, who were married 22 years, got separated. My life took a turn for the worse. My mother was the one who left, and I had to assume her responsibilities and take care of my three little sisters.

     Sometimes I get frustrated and feel restless, and other times I feel nostalgia about the happy times I remember. I know that nothing will ever be the same, but why do I feel this way, and will things get better?
     Ever since my mother left, my moods have been worsening and my anger growing. When I get angry, I lash out and later regret it.

     It feels as though nothing will ever brighten up for me. I wanted to attend college this year, but I can't as a result of my responsibilities. I have little to no support from my sisters and feel easily irritated at home.

     I feel trapped with no way out. I have been applying for jobs to no avail. My financial matters are horrible, I am in massive debt with the bank and don't currently have a job. I also don't know how to budget and administer my money. Will I become better at it, or will it bite me hard later?

     In terms of my love life, I haven't had a serious, long-lasting relationship ever. There's this guy I really like, and I can't get over him. I met him in school and have liked him for three years, but I don't know what to do or if he likes me because he's a difficult person. He was born Jan. 31, 1994.

     I know my birthday is the last day of sun in Libra, Oct. 22, 1994, at 12:03 p.m., so I'm a cusp -- could you elaborate what qualities I have standing out as a Libran and Scorpio? -- Wondering Libran


eugeniaYou have inherited a very difficult situation, but not an impossible one. Let me begin with your education: It is important to go into your high school and talk to your guidance counselor. Reach out to your community for help. It is important to take this action immediately so that you don't waste any more time. It is possible to get a degree online these days, so holding a job and studying at the same time is possible. You may also want to consider a trade or an apprenticeship. You are in a high cycle regarding asking for help and favors until August, so don't waste time -- set your goals and go after them.

     You need to learn to manage your money better and delegate domestic chores to your sisters. They may not be willing, but if they're able, they must be taught to take on responsibilities.

     The Libra in your chart makes you procrastinate, but the Scorpio gives you desire and drive to better your life and your future. Unfortunately, the confusion, impatience and worry will continue to plague you until August. It may very well take until that time to reach your goals and ease your stress.

     The Aquarian in your life isn't the one for you. He has his own problems and is more of a liability to you than an asset. Should you become too close, I fear the only thing you will get out of it is an unwanted pregnancy. So please do move on.

     To elaborate a little regarding your natal chart, you think like a Libra, love like a Scorpio and are emotionally flippant like a Gemini. Your chart isn't bad, but it has been going through difficult times for the past three years. What you are experiencing now will help you grow if you learn from the trials and tribulations you've been faced with. Don't be afraid to ask for help.


Q: Dear Eugenia, A: Dear -- Depressed,

I have been reading your horoscopes daily, and your readings are amazingly accurate. My husband unexpectedly passed away on Feb. 22 around 9 p.m., just one day before our one-year wedding anniversary. We were together for seven years and have two kids, ages 2 and 4.

     I came home from work and found him dead in the bathroom. I'm still waiting for the autopsy, but it's a possible overdose. Although I never knew he was using drugs, I knew he was a drinker. Because of the way he passed away, I feel his soul is somehow stuck in limbo, and I need to know that he is at peace. I talk to him, but I don't feel he is here with me. I want to tell him how much I love him and hope he is not suffering.

Please help me let him know I am not angry with him and I hope we will be together again. He was born July 16, 1976, and I was born Nov. 24, 1978, at 1:15 a.m. I'm so full of grief I don't know how to go on without him. -- Depressed

eugeniaI do not see any indication that your husband's passing was intentional. It certainly was not as difficult as his loss has been for you. The transits he experienced at his time of death indicate either an allergic reaction to something he consumed or an overdose that may have set off cardiac arrest.

     Although he was a drinker, his problem did not appear to be out of control. This leads me to believe that he passed in peace, knowing that he had a loving wife and children. Whether it was alcohol, prescription medication or illegal drugs doesn't matter. It was his time, and he has found peace.

     As for you, life goes on, and you have two beautiful children to parent. Your chart indicates your loss and that it was sudden, but it also indicates your strength, courage and ability to move forward. Your focus must be on your children, work and building a new life. After all, that's what your Cancer husband would want you to do.

Q: Dear Eugenia,

A: Dear Curious Libra,

What's up with the horoscope -- it seems vague. I'm not accusing or anything, but I would be a bit curious to see if it can be narrowed down. My question is about the times you need in your readings. You ask for the exact minute a person is born -- but that's a process. Is what some person writes on a paper the official count?

Time is an arbitrary measurement, so I would be enlightened to understand the difference it makes. My gracious apologies for any perceived attitude, as I am rather detached from opinion and judgments. For the record, I was born Oct. 13, 1986, at 10:09 a.m. -- Curious Libra



 

 


eugenia

I can totally understand your perspective regarding your Libra horoscope. After all, when you were born, only the Sun was passing through the constellation of Libra, giving you a slight Libra influence that in your particular case represents an area of your chart dealing with group endeavors, networking, asking for favors and such.

     Your natal chart indicates you think and love like a Scorpio and your emotions are somewhat detached like an Aquarius.

     I offer a service called Daily Timing. It breaks down a person's natal chart and dissects it to the point that you can read all 12 signs of a horoscope and apply each caption to the applicable area it represents in your chart. This gives an individual 12 times the information and certainly makes a daily horoscope less vague.

     A natal chart is specific to an individual based on the day, month, year, time and place of birth. It is a mathematical science and an interpretive art. It is not predictive; it is all about timing. Do the right thing at the right time and be successful.



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