My question to you may be a little different than most. I was born on Aug. 12, 1967, at 7:21 p.m. My soul mate, Tom, was born July 6, 1963. He passed away on Oct. 24, 2012.

After his death, I heard him talk to me in my head as plain as day! I have never had a serious interest in anything like this, but I have studied metaphysics and am very spiritual. I have had a few readings by psychic mediums. Is all of this due to my soul mate passing, and does it mean I should become a psychic medium? --

Leo

Tom's passing may have tweaked your psychic ability, but I don't believe that he is going to guide you in the future.

Whatever develops will be on your own. The reason behind the messages you are receiving may be more to do with helping you move on and start over after losing such a close partner.

With transiting Saturn moving across the top of your chart, it is likely you will learn many lessons and connect strongly with your spiritual side over the next two years. It is also apparent that someone you meet between late summer and late spring of next year will have a huge impact on your life and the way you live it.

I was born March 16, 1991 at 6 p.m. I have a big problem. Every man who comes into my life ends up leaving me for someone else. Sometime I think the problem is me. I do not know why my relationships do not last. I am so tired of getting played all the time.
Because of my past relationship, I can't seem to trust anyone. I push everyone away who tries to come into my life. Will I find love in the near future? --

Pisces

Your chart does indicate that there are difficulties when it comes to relationships. You are emotional for sure, but you also have an aspect in your chart that makes you not trust people and attract people who cannot be trusted. It is vital that you always have an astrological comparison cast before you let intimacy take over.

On the favorable side, you also have another aspect in your chart that draws potential partners to your side. However, your uncertainty picking wisely gets in the way.

You are still very young, and you need to gain more life experience before you settle down with anyone. Your chart indicates a much higher romantic cycle beginning in the middle of next year that lasts until the end of summer 2015. You match up best to the signs Leo, Virgo, Scorpio, Sagittarius and Aquarius.

A: Dear Lost Scorpio,

The past few years, I've faced the death of my mom, my dad and two sisters. Where do I go from here? I feel lost, alone and as if I no longer belong. Please help me understand my purpose. I was born Nov. 1, 1958, at 2:30 a.m. --

Lost Scorpio

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's difficult to know what to do when such trauma hits. Over the next couple of years, you will be rebuilding your life. Right now, the confusion is great, and you are facing many uncertainties. Your chart indicates a change in your faith and spirituality that will lead to altering your occupation or encouraging you to volunteer your services, help, time or money to a cause or you feel passionate about.

The need to make a difference is apparent, but your motives must be for the right reason. Out of every negative we face in life, there is a positive. Whether it is a lesson we learn, insight that allows us to help others, or any other revelation that encourages positive change, the bottom line is to look for the good in everything and everyone. Don't be impulsive. Give yourself a chance to heal and to figure out the best way to share your feelings so that you can help others overcome similar losses.

Your chart indicates that you feel anger and would like to strike back in some way, but in all honesty, the sweetest revenge or the way to get over what's happened is finding your own success. Keep me posted on your progress.


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