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Readers Email for the week of January 31, 2015

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Q: Dear Eugenia, A: Leo in Distress,  

I'm a 34-year-old guy who is in dire need of any kind of advice that you may possibly be able to help me with. I will be eternally grateful for any kind of intelligent feedback, guiding advice or key aspects that you might see prevalent in my chart. I am wondering what is the right, correct direction that I need to be focused on the most and be priority number one for me in order to have the most spiritually rewarding life. I want to go around using my tons of nervous yet creative skills and utilize my very fiery and straightforward energy. I have plenty of tact and genuine emotions incorporated, and ultimately, I want to be comfortable with what I'm doing and what I'm on this planet for.

     I'm seriously at a tremendously humongous and important turning point in my life, but I'm so lost, torn and confused as to what to do right now that will lead to living a genuine happy life, spreading universal love and understanding.

     I was born July 25, 1981, at 11:51 p.m. --

Leo in Distress

eugeniaFirst of all, your uncertainty regarding your path has more to do with an aspect in your natal chart that you were born with. It causes you to jump from one thing to another, becoming a Jack of all trades, and master of none; that has to stop first and foremost. Secondly, you have a transit beginning that shows growth, experience and learning where spirituality, philosophy, educational pursuits and travel are concerned that will remain with you and guide you for a couple of years. You are at a turning point in your life, and although you aren't ready to start at the top, you are ready to begin to climb the ladder that will take you in that direction.

     If you want to know what you should do for a living, the answer is work for yourself. Your chart denotes that you are an entrepreneur who desperately needs to find his niche and turn it into a marketable service. With the creative planet Neptune in the sign Sagittarius in an area of your chart that deals with learning and teaching, this is probably a place to begin, and with transiting Uranus sitting on your ascendant about to ignite your creativity over the next few years, no doubt you are feeling restless and anxious to get things going.

     Consider what you love to do most, and turn it into a viable service that will benefit others -- you, my friend, will benefit as well.


Q: Dear Eugenia, A: Overly Analytical Aquagirl,

I met a man 10 years older than me (born April 8, 1984). From what I've read, Aries and Aquarius are supposed to be compatible, but I feel like we are not. He comes from a great family and seems like a good guy, but I don't feel like I can trust him, or that'll it'll ever work out well for us. I've met his whole family, which was scary. He comes on really strong. I don't know if I should go with my gut and end it or see if it could work. I was born Feb. 2, 1994, at 3 a.m. --

Overly Analytical Aquagirl

eugeniaYour Aries man falls in an area of your chart that deals with socializing, having children and building a domestic future together, so it can work; however, there does appear to be a lack of physical attraction that you feel for him.

     Regarding his trustworthiness, he was born with his natal Neptune adversely positioned to his natal Venus, and this indicates sorrow; however, it is apparent that could just as easily be you breaking his heart as him cheating on you.

     All relationships take work and open communication, and none are picture perfect. This is a workable relationship, but somehow I don't feel you are quite ready to settle down -- your Aries, on the other hand, is.

Q: Dear Eugenia,

A: Pisces,

Several years ago, I dated a man (born Oct. 14, 1951) for a brief time. I fell in love with him. He was seeing another woman as well who he since married and divorced. He recently reached out to a mutual friend, saying he wanted to be in touch with me. I told the mutual friend I wasn't interested.

     This may sound silly, but it took me a long time to get over this man. He was wishy-washy about me and the other woman he was seeing and seemed to be relieved when I walked away. It was like he was relieved not to have to make a choice. I felt like he couldn't have wanted me very much. I've never really gotten over him.

     The past year has been tough for me. Two wonderful family members died. I felt like seeing this man would just add more emotional drama to my life, and I just can't take that right now. Did I do the right thing? Also, three people in my life have been born on Oct. 14. Am I attracted to that date? I was born March 7, 1962, at 11:30 a.m. --





eugeniaThe sign Libra falls in an area of your chart that deals with your home and family and having fun, so it's not a surprise that you attract people born under that sign. As for the man in question, the comparison is pretty good emotionally, mentally and physically; however, when it comes to his personality and being wishy-washy and unable to make decisions, that is part of his basic character.

     You deserve to have some fun after all that you've been through, so perhaps it wouldn't hurt to hear what this man has to say and offer. Obviously, you must have been on his mind as well. I believe the timing was off for the two of you in the past, and that's what caused you to walk away and him to give in to the other woman's desire to marry.

     Open your mind and protect your heart, but don't deny yourself the chance to give this relationship a second chance.

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