| Q: Dear Eugenia,
Met an out of province man online. We agreed to meet while he was here on business. Up to the day we met we emailed daily lengthy letters revealing more of ourselves. The attraction level was high with the daily emails having a great deal to do with this. We met and our first date went very well. We agreed to meet again the weekend before he was to return to his home. We did get intimate and upon his return he announces that he wasn't interested in a long distance relationship. He had ample opportunity to bring this to the front. I haven't contacted him since this and am feeling very sad over it all. He's a Sagittarius. What was this all about? Who was this man and why do I feel such a great sense of loss? I was born September 27, 1955 at 3:15 PM and he was born December 15, 1956
Thank you, Lost Libra |
A: Dear Lost Libra,
 The comparison is barely passable, certainly not good enough to work long distance. There is a definite indication of deception especially where your communication with him regarding his status, friends and family comes into the equation. The physical side of the comparison was a fleeting passionate but not a lasting connection. Mentally it lacked longevity and emotionally it indicates frustration and limitation in the long run. Your chart has not been favorably aspected regarding relationships this year and the chance of attracting the wrong guy has been prominent. Beginning next February you are in a much better love cycle that should bring good results with the right partner. You match up well to those born under the sign Aries, Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius (just not this one) and Aquarius. Don’t give up hope you just picked the wrong partner. Your case is not uncommon. I get literally thousands of emails from people who find someone over the Internet and email back and forth for months, sometimes years and when they finally hook up physically it’s over. Now that’s not to say that all internet connections are a bust but I believe when distance is involved and with the number of players out there trying to take advantage of having an extra marital affair the percentage unravels from positive to negative. Due to the set up in your chart I believe that you should always have an astrological comparison done before you decide to become intimate with someone new. |
| Q:
Dear Eugenia,
My date of birth is June 19, 1978 and the time I was born was 3:18pm. The reason why I am writing you is because I am unlucky with love and now I am disillusioned with trying to find love. I just ended a relationship that lasted a little less than a year with an Aquarius whose birthday is January 26, 1977; this man has hurt me tremendously with his insensitive uncaring ways. Prior to dating this man I dated a Scorpio and that relationship was extremely dry and lacked passion. I can go on about all the men I have dated and the poor outcomes of these failed relationships. My friends are in stable relationships that will possibly end in marriage and children, I am extremely happy for them because I love them dearly but this just makes me even sadder with myself because I have not found love. Last year I had a series of problems that really tested my faith and my emotional being; they were my unhappiness with my job, my relationship with the Aquarius and my mother s health. When 2008 came in I found a new job which I am happy with, my mother s health although not 100% better is improving, and now I have ended an unhealthy relationship which consumed me. I feel now that some of the pieces are coming together for me and the only thing missing in my life is that special someone who completes me, however I am beginning to feel that I never will. My friends say take my time and focus on getting my masters degree and then everything else will fall into place but I just don t see it happening. I just recently turned 30 and I feel that my clock is ticking, I want to have children and be married and I feel that as time goes by my chances are slim to none. I am to the point now that I have just given up and I am accepting the fact I will be alone. Eugenia, I have written you in the past and you have given me some great input, I write you again for your help with my matter of the heart. Do you see in your charts that special someone for me or should I let go of hope and forget about ever finding love and having a family. Thank you for taking the time to read this and I understand you get lots of letters and emails on a regular basis.
Sincerely, Disillusioned Gemini |
A: Dear Disillusioned Gemini ,
First off your Aquarius was not a well-suited partner astrologically. Although you connect emotionally and mentally physically it just wasn’t there at least not both ways, plus the fact that his chart shows sorrow within his personal relationships meaning that it isn’t likely that he will ever find true happiness through his partners. This connection would have made a better friendship or perhaps you should have taken a pass on altogether. As for you the end of this year and beginning of next show favorable happenings in the romance department. It is apparent that you will meet someone through the industry you work in or through a friend or family member. Do not give up, you are a late bloomer and you do want someone in your life that is right for you so don’t settle for anything or anyone less. Your clock still has plenty of time and I certainly wouldn’t rule children out. Many couples are having children later in life. You are a nurturer with plenty to offer both a good man and your family. You match up well to those born under the signs, late Aries early Taurus, Leo, Sagittarius and Aquarius – just not the one you were with. |
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Q: Dear Eugenia,
I am an avid reader of your website and advise to readers. Many times I have wondered what advise you would have for me, since the past few years have been difficult for me. I have suffered the loss of a child, had marriage issues and a career/job loss. You always advise your readers to seek astrological comparisons before starting new relationships and endeavors. Here lies my question to you. My DOB is 08/17/62 @ 7:05pm, spouse DOB is 10/14/63. Recently, after a strange series of events, I have felt the need to change courses. Recent events brought an old friend back into my life, DOB 10/18/62. I'd like to spend more time with this person. So much is up in the air now; I feel I could walk away from this marriage and seek my own happiness. My children are grown and for many years I've ignored my own needs. My marriage has been drifting apart. My career will be taking another turn due to the loss of a major contract. I feel like I'm in some sort of make it or break it mode and some independence could give me the boost I need. Fire under my bottom so to speak. Do you see this in my chart, any advise as to situations I should be wary of?
Lost Leo
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A: Dear Lost Leo,
You are going through a make it or break it period within your personal relationships however that isn’t always the wisest time to get up and leave. The comparison with your spouse is actually more compatible then the comparison with your old friend. Even so if you have drifted too far apart from your husband you may not be able to turn back time and work things out. The fact that your husband’s sun sign falls in an area of your chart that indicates legal problems and relationships that aren’t likely to go the distance does make you more susceptible to ending your marriage. You will probably have the exact same problem with your Libra friend as he too falls in that area of your chart leading me to believe that he is only your stepping stone out of your marriage and that in the end your freedom to come and go as you please will bring about new relationships with partners better suited than either your spouse or your friend. All that being said, you will be in a high cycle late this year and early next regarding meeting someone who is actually a better match. Perhaps you should try spending time with a more appropriate sign such as Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Late Scorpio, Capricorn or a Pisces. |