It’s one week into the New Year. By now most of us have assessed last year and made a few notes as to what we want to improve, or accomplish this year. It’s never easy to stick to a resolution, especially if you are not realistic.

By keeping things simple you have a chance to make a difference as well as to be successful.

My suggestion for 2012 is to strive to live in the moment, to drop past regrets that hold you back and to be mindful of those around you. I have always found that if you are fun and positive to be with that everyone wants to be with you.

The influence you have or the impact you make on others using positive suggestions and affirmation usually brings good results. Being positive is a way of life. So is complaining about everything. Think about it – it’s much more difficult to live in a world that you find fault in then it is to live in a world where you focus on encouragement.

The mind is influential and using thought power to create a better world should be everyone’s resolution. Collectively we can alter the overall flow of what’s to come but first we must all get on the same wavelength. Remember Thoughts are followed by actions. Let’s make our thoughts count by sending positive peaceful vibes into the universe.

Readers Email:

Dear Eugenia,

I was born on March 13th 1986 at 5:54 in the morning. A few years ago my sister visited an astrologer and she told her that I am not likely to find my true love until later in life. I am wondering if you think this is true. I always choose the wrong guy and I’m worried that I’ll end up marrying the wrong one too. Do you have any advice? I am interested in a man born on November 12th, 1980. Is he good for me?

Pisces

Dear Pisces

You were born with an aspect in your chart that does create sorrowful relationships but it is mostly due to your inability to make a commit for fear you should make a mistake. You attract bad boys because you crave the excitement and adventure they offer. You have a bachelor’s mentality when it comes to relationships however that doesn’t mean you cannot find and have a fulfilling love life.

Your current partner isn’t a bad match physically so he does fall into the category of partners you should enjoy during your youthful years. The average person begins to mature during their first Saturn return (age 29) however some with the type of set up that you have in your chart do best settling down once they hit their second half-life Saturn (age 42).

For now you are best to enjoy life and focus on your career and getting the most out of whatever relationships you encounter. When you are ready the signs most suited to you are Aries, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius and Aquarius.

Remember to have an astrological comparison cast when you are ready to settle down. It will put your mind at ease as to whether or not you have chosen Mr. Right.

Dear Eugenia

I’ve been with my husband for 20 year, two of those years we’ve been separated. He left the family with a lot of angry issues and now he wants a divorce.  I have done all I can do concerning this marriage and I feel that divorce is the only option.  My date of birth is 12/17/1967 at 5:01 AM and my husband’s is 09/07/1960. My question is will I find that special someone that’s ready to settle down forever?

Very Hopeful

Dear Very Hopeful

You are right to let go. The comparison with your ex does indicate sorrow and plenty of secrets. As for you there will be no trouble meeting someone new once you get back into the singles scene. You have a well-rounded chart and can get along with most signs. Your chart indicates more than one marriage and plenty of opportunity.

Although these opportunities exist even now you should probably take time to have some fun, take care of your own needs and to enjoy the company of different partners until you get a sense of what you really want. By mid 2013 you will be in a much better headspace to make a judgment call regarding a long-term partnership.

Dear Eugenia

Over the last two years I have had a lot of turmoil in my life from loosing my job to loosing my home to loosing my father. I was wondering if things are going to get better for me financially and emotionally. I am finding life very frustrating right now. I was born May 14, 1965 at 12:13 AM.

Down and Out Taurus

Dear Down and Out Taurus

You have a good chart that has gone through difficult transits and although it may seem impossible to move forward you will once you grasp what needs to be done.

Your chart indicates that you have a propensity to indulge in impulse purchases and this always kills whatever budget you set. You also tend to invest poorly and lend to people who don’t pay you back. So first and foremost you need a good financial advisor once you get back into the work force.

Secondly you should be looking into work at home options or starting your own small business along with signing up for a business course or picking up skills that will make you more employable.

Your chart indicates that this little setback was meant to be a learning experience that will help you set your sights on a much wiser course that results in greater stability.

What you do now with regard to studying, research, moving to an area with greater job opportunities or doing everything in your power to market your skills or a service that you want to offer the greater your advancement will be when the area of your chart that deals with work, money and how you earn your living comes into a high cycle in 2013.

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