As transiting Uranus continues to make my life extremely unpredictable I have to tell you it also makes me feel alive. I know plenty of people who live a very flat life. Nothing changes from day to day. They come and go, do the same things, watch the same shows on television, eat the same meals week to week. You know who I’m talking about – the people who never venture outside the safety zone.
Once in a while I wonder what living a mundane life might be like but quickly realize how much I’d be missing. After all nature’s way is to balance so for every reaction there is an equal and opposite reaction. For me the reaction can be quite extreme. It’s just the way I live my life and of course being born with a chart that lends itself to having a personality that I always refer to as being a moderate extremist there is no doubt that I certainly don’t have and never have had a normal life.
I’ve come to realize over the years that in order to really experience some of the wonderful highlights in my live the opposite can and has been devastatingly difficult. From these experiences it has also given me great insight into what my clients are going through.
So for all of you out there who are living a rather unpredictable and extreme life and who are currently going through some difficult moments just remember for as bad as it gets there will be an equal and opposite reaction that you can look forward to.
Readers Email:
Dear Eugenia
I am suffering from a broken heart and deeply depressed. I am a Libra, born 10/10/65 at 6:00AM and have been disillusioned over two men: One who hasn’t kept his promises, born 2/24/64 and the other who has not met my expectations, born 1/30/78. Will I ever find happiness and true love? Love has always been painful…when will love be joyful?
Signed,
Broken-hearted Libra
Dear Broken-hearted Libra
Your Pisces man is not the one for you. Not only is this man deceptive he is using you for his own gain or benefit either financially or to stroke his ego. It is apparent that he can be a player.
Your Aquarius man is a better fit but sorrow is present with regard to children and financial concerns such as debt, alimony or how he handles both yours and his possessions.
You need someone in your life that can match you on all levels mentally, emotionally financially and physically. Unfortunately you have chosen men who tend to lean on you rather than take care of you.
Consider a Leo or Sagittarius but please before you let your heart get broken again have an astrological comparison done first.
Dear Eugenia
My mother (birth date: July 1, 1920) has dementia/Alzheimer. She lives on her own and I am an only child. It must check on her daily to see if she is taking her medication, eating properly, delivering groceries, taking her to appointments, and yes delivering her wine.
I need to go away with my 78-year-old husband. I am trying to arrange for a caretaker to visit my mother Monday to Friday for 4 hrs each day. On the weekends my son will visit. I am so torn with guilt — should I leave or not. I have essential tremor, which increase when I am with her. I take medication for the tremors and sleeping medication as well. I was born August 8, 1944 at 8PM.
Guilt Ridden Daughter
Dear Guilt Ridden Daughter
You have let your mother rule your world and although it is a gracious and selfless thing to do you also must not sacrifice your life or your marriage for the sake of pleasing your mother.
You should not only be moving forward with hiring a caregiver for your mother while you are away you should also consider doing so long-term or have her admitted to a facility where she can get proper fulltime care.
Your mother would not want you to forgo your own health for the sake of hers at this point.
It is obvious that you have been a loving and grateful daughter but you have to take care of you, after all you are the glue that holds the family together and without you everyone who loves you will suffer.
Dear Eugenia
I’m a Cancer born June 26,1983 @ 5:31p I recently left my child’s father born 12/08/1976 for another man born 4/5/1980 I thought I was doing the right thing. I had many problems with my child’s father that we couldn’t work out and the other man made me feel better about myself, until we moved in together. He is very controlling & gets mad easily. He is jealous and I’m getting to the point where I can’t deal with him either. He tells me things will get better. Do you think I made the right choice?
Confused Cancer
Dear Confused Cancer
Your first mistake was leaving one man to go to another. Although you do match up much better to your Aries partner the comparison does indicate emotional deception. He watched you leave a man you had a child with in order to be with him. Subconsciously he knows that if you walked away from your child’s father you could just as easily walk away from him. This situation is not conducive to a trusting relationship. Your Aries man’s chart also indicates that he is prone to jealousy as well as cheating.
What this relationship was telling you was that you probably shouldn’t be with your Sagittarius man. You should have finished one relationship before starting another. Now you must pay the price until your Aries feels he can trust you or move on. Chances are good he never will and that does not set a healthy environment for you or your child.
You will be in a high cycle regarding late next year and the first half of 2013. I suggest you take a breather and focus on your job and your child. When you are ready consider another Aries (if you cannot work something out with this one), Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius or Aquarius.
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