As we head into the tail end of the year of the Tiger we should all start thinking about the things we need to finish in order to end one year and begin another on a high note. It’s decision-making time for many. A time to change your job or go back to school start a family or maybe make a move from your current location to one that offers greater opportunities.

The spring has always been thought of as a time of new beginnings and the fall as the time to end old conditions so that you can work your way to the upcoming spring and once again new beginnings.

This year don’t wait until December/January to start terminating what needs to be changed in your life, start now so that you are fully prepared to begin the Year of the Rabbit with a clean slate and a good plan.

Readers Email:
Dear Eugenia
My birthday is 11-18-1983.  The last two years have been tough.  My husband 04-03-1967 had a fantasy – two women at once and I, wanting to be the good wife went along with it. She lives with us now. Do you ever see this ending? Am I meant to be with him?
Lonely
Dear Lonely
Your situation is interesting and I truly wish you included your birth time and the date of the third party now living with you. Nevertheless I am inclined to answer your question anyway.
Are you out of your mind girl? I mean really it’s one thing to be experimental and experience ménage trios but to let another woman move in with you is just plain ridiculous especially for a Scorpio. I have to admit you do have your natal Venus (love) in Libra and you think (Mercury) like a Sagittarius which does make you a little more liberal when it comes to sex but your husband is an Aries coming into his second half-life Saturn and one way or another he is going to end up with you or the other woman, not both of you.
Without the third parties birth data I cannot tell you whether it will be you or her but you are probably best to rethink your position. Frankly your comparison with your Aries is okay but I feel it is lacking physically so that is probably why you are in a threesome to begin with.
Personally you can do better and your transits to meet someone new are good this year and the first half of next so get a move on it. Cut your losses, but before you do make sure you have everything you need to get a good settlement. He deserves to lose on this one.

Dear Eugenia
My horoscope for my birthday, April 24, 1963 at 1:04 pm, said that I have the potential to make things happen if I go about it the right way. This is encouraging, but I am not sure how to make this happen. I would love to take advantage of this cycle!  I just feel a bit stuck and don’t know where to begin.
Taurus
Dear Taurus
According to your natal chart these astrological cycles do pertain to you in an area of your chart that deal with finance, home environment and self improvement that will enable you to boost your confidence and help get moving in the right direction between now and the spring of 2012. It’s what you do in this time frame that will determine the gains you will make. The last three quarters of 2012 will be when you reap the rewards.
You should start by signing up for courses, picking up skills or starting your own small business. This cycle is also good for making real estate purchases or moves as well as investments that can help you get ahead economically or help finance what it is you want to pursue.
The only thing holding you back is your reluctance to take the first step. You will only reap what you sow. Don’t fall short when the opportunity to do great things is apparent. With the transits you have heading your way next year educational pursuits will be favored as will communications, lecturing writing and travel. Utilize some or all of these into your plans and you will make headway.

Dear Eugenia
My husband and I are considering divorce (his birth data is 11/20/1965, mine January 18, 1969 at 4:58 am).  I am devastated that I’ve lost 15 years of my life to this relationship. I’m not sure that I love him any more. He’s always lacked commitment to our marriage. Is this the right thing for us? I’m unemployed at the moment. Do you see any prospect for a job?  We’re waiting until I find work.
Capricorn
Dear Capricorn
The comparison is okay but deception regarding your husband’s feelings and commitment are apparent.
Your chart indicates that you should update your skills or acquire more knowledge in order to get a decent job between now and the spring of next year when it will be easier for you to find work. Even if you take a menial job now you should still take a course that will lead to a lucrative future.
Regarding love you do have great transits to meet someone special this fall until year end and even better transits come your way beginning in the fall of 2011 remaining with you until well into 2012. You match up to the signs Aries, Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius and Aquarius. Note Scorpio isn’t included.

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