Have you ever noticed that life is about “hurry up and wait”? Do we spend most of our timing wishing it away? It’s strange how we are always waiting for the next rush or change yet so few of us actually go out and try to make it happen. Why is that?
A few years back I spent a fair amount of time with seniors, so many of which were waiting to die. It struck me as odd that even at the very end of life it is still a race against time to reach a destination anticipating change.
So where am I going with all this. Back to timing – It isn’t about wishing away our lives it’s about making the most of the time we have. Seizing the moment and making things happen. We are for the most part the master’s of our domains so what’s the hold up.
Astrology can set the pace and help you make moves when the time is right. You must venture down paths at opportune times – not after the fact. So make a list of things you want to accomplish this year and instead of wishing them to happen step up and make them happen. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain in the end the worst thing that can happen is nothing at all.
Readers Email:
Q. In December, I lost my husband (born July 24, 1932) to cancer. We were married for 17 years.
Many people have told me that I will find someone else soon and the pain will go away. I believe that my husband was the only one in this lifetime for me. Any others would just be stand-ins. Am I being a romantic? Some of my friends do not believe in soul mates. I was born March 9, 1966 at 1:24 p.m.
PISCES
A. The astrological comparison with your late husband is OK, but not stellar. I do believe that we connect with some people better than others but I do not believe there is only one person on this planet with whom you are meant to be. Your chart indicates that you should and will be married more than once. Open up your heart and you will find true love again.
This summer, as well as the first half of next year, will favor meeting another partner with long-term potential. You are too young to face the rest of your life alone, especially when your chart clearly indicates that you belong in a relationship. You match up best to the signs Aries, Taurus, Cancer, Libra, Scorpio and Capricorn.
Q. Several years ago, I met a man (born Feb. 20, 1969) and it was love at first sight. We dated for a few years and talked about getting married during this time. However, he had many events in his past that caused him great sadness. Being unable to work through his issues and deal with the past, we could not move forward and eventually broke up.
Fast forward three more years, and I was still not over him, so I contacted him, just as a friend. We’ve been seeing each other now on a friendly basis for the past few months. He claims he has worked through his past and is doing very well. We have not yet discussed our current feelings.
Do we have a chance at a future together? I was born Jan. 9, 1978 at 6:10 a.m.
CURIOUS CAPRICORN
A. I can see what draws you to your Pisces friend but it isn’t necessarily good for you, and I believe it will lead to a repeat performance should you decide to move forward with this relationship.
He is heading into his second half-life Saturn and that, unfortunately, can cause him to be with someone for the wrong reasons. Although he is a Pisces by sun sign, he is strongly influenced by the signs Aries and Libra. He is confused now and not in an emotional position to be honest with you.
You are in a high cycle regarding love this year and I would hate to see you waste it on someone who is not that well-suited to you. You match up best to the signs Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Capricorn and Aquarius. Note: Pisces, Aries and Libra are not on the list.
Q. My problem is this: I was born four months premature. I was due in early May, but was born on Jan. 3, 1954 at 9 p.m. First, am I truly a Capricorn?
The issue is that I’ve been struggling all my life, one way or the other. I’ve been alone for more than 25 years and raised two beautiful professional daughters. I always figured in God’s time, it would be my turn. I just want to know if my life is heading for the better.
Financially, I’ve had to start over from scratch four times. I pray for financial stability and a shoulder to lean on. What do you see for me?
FIGHTING NOT TO GIVE UP
A. Yes, you are a true blue Capricorn with a Virgo, Scorpio influence. Your chart is cast at the precise moment the umbilical cord is cut, not the due date.
Your financial situation still faces some limitations but I believe this will turn in your favor during the first half of 2011. For now, you must hang on to what you have and work hard to secure your position, as uncertainties are present regarding your current status.
You will receive help or favors from people you have worked with in the past who are well-connected. Don’t be afraid to ask for help or too proud to take it. Business and personal partnerships are in a high cycle this year.
If you really want to meet someone to share your life with, you have to make an effort. If you sit at home alone, you will remain single.
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