The Sweet.
The past week is sort of a blur. My man, our dogs and I packed up and drove to Chicago to visit our good friends Bruce and Kati O (check them out on my friends page) as well as hooking up with new friends from the Chicago Sun Times. Yes I got to witness the Dear Eugenia column in print. Even better my good friend John from my syndicate joined us for dinner – what more could a gal ask for? Everything was good……
The Bitter.
We lost Michael Jackson. A Virgo with such talent, so misguided, mistreated and misunderstood, a boy never really a man and certainly a one of a kind. However, even worse for us we lost our little Petey (a tiny t-cup poodle). Petey wasn’t doing that well but he did love to travel, and now there are only five. All our dogs are getting older and the heartbreak each time we lose another one doesn’t get any easier. For my man this was a particularly hard loss as Petey was his little guy. A sweetheart of a dog he will be missed by all of us.
Readers Email:
Dear Eugenia
I’ve met this guy whose birthday is 12-3-60. My birthday is 12-18-57. I really like him a lot; we’ve been dating for about a month. I would like to know if this relationship has any long-term potential and if he will fall in love with me. We get along great and have a lot of fun together; I just don’t want my heart to get broke by him. Can you tell me if things will work out for us?
Thank you for your time.
Sagittarius
Dear Sagittarius
I do see the connection however the comparison doesn’t indicate that there is enough to sustain this relationship long-term. Sorrow does show up in an area of your comparison that deals with friends, relatives, past lovers and keeping secrets. This can be overcome if you are both extremely open and honest with one another but somehow I don’t believe this will be the case. I do feel you can build a good friendship with him but nothing more. Please think long and hard about what you really want to gain here, a good friend or a lover. I have a saying “Lovers come and go, but friends are there forever”. Think about it and you may opt to go for the friendship. I believe that if you pursue a love relationship with your Sagittarius man it will end just as quickly as it began.
Dear Eugenia
I just met this wonderful girl. She makes me feel happy. This past Friday night we went on our very first date where we were actually alone. I haven’t felt this way around a girl since my last girlfriend. We broke up about one year ago. Before that we were together for six years. I just want to know if you think that this is the girl for me. I was born November 14, 1982 at 7:47 am and she was born March 12, 1980.
Thank you.
Scorpio
Dear Scorpio
I find it hard to believe you even mentioned your last girlfriend after analyzing your comparison with your Pisces friend. This is a match made in heaven barring a few minor exceptions, those being the fact that you are still very young and that she is going through so many changes right now. Without her time of birth I can’t tell you where these changes will take place but sometimes it can cause a sudden change of heart if it falls in the personal area of a chart or it can cause jumping from one job to another if it falls in a professional area. This can only be determined by her time of birth. I do believe however that if you compromise, keep things light and you build a solid and strong friendship that a passionate and long lasting relationship can and will follow.
Dear Eugenia,
I was born July 26, 1977 at 3:36 pm. I have been in a relationship for almost 5 years and lived with my partner for 3. I have carried the financial burden of our relationship, rent, bills, food, etc. At first, I was OK to do this temporarily as he was pursuing his passion, but I always expected him to balance his responsibilities. He hasn’t been able to do that. Now, I am entering grad school and I’m rethinking our relationship. I love him, but am not comfortable signing another lease with him. His b day is 11/21/76. I guess I want to know if I should stay or go. Each option scares me.
Leo
Dear Leo
I wish I could tell you the comparison is worth staying together but it isn’t. It’s time to move on and you should do so immediately. When a relationship between two people isn’t equal it suffers and in your case with the amount of emotional deception and disillusionment that shows up in the comparison it is in your best interest to go it alone.
I doubt you will be alone for long. Your chart shows plenty of opportunities this year where love, romance and finding a serious relationship is concerned. Get on with your life, get your education out of the way and focus on you for a change. You match up well to the signs Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius and Aquarius. Note Scorpio is not mentioned.
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