Last week Mars moved into the constellation Gemini and will remain there until June 24th. This can add to restless and impulsive behavior if you don’t plan your actions wisely and use your energy in a positive manner. Don’t criticize others when you should be focusing on the results you get from your actions.
On Tuesday transiting Mercury in the sign Gemini will turn retrograde so this is a friendly reminder to do your best to tie up loose ends. This is a period of completion, not starting something new. Do everything in your power to put the past behind you emotionally, mentally, physically and financially during this retrograde to ensure you are ready to jump into forward motion when transiting Mercury turns direct on June 11th.
DEAR EUGENIA: A few months ago, I moved to better myself and get away from all the negative paths I was going down in my hometown. I met this guy (born April 23, 1994), and we’ve been dating for about two weeks — but I already have some doubts. He’s a horrible listener and awkward around me.
A week ago, my best friend from high school (born Aug. 3, 1995, at 7 a.m.) asked me to come live with him in another state. We haven’t been that close the past two years since he graduated ahead of me, but we have been talking a lot more lately. I think I’m going to say yes. I feel a better connection with him, and it sounds like an awesome experience. Are there better opportunities for me with him? Will it all work out? I was born Nov. 24, 1996, at 9:15 a.m. — Sagittarius in Limbo
DEAR SAGITTARIUS IN LIMBO: I can see your uncertainty regarding the two men in question. You haven’t given the new man in your life enough time. His awkwardness probably has more to do with his insecurity regarding the way you feel. Even so, I have to remind you that you are still very young, and the experience you gain in your 20s will mold your future and determine how successful you will be both personally and professionally. The comparison with your new man does indicate some sorrow and deception; however, that has more to do with you not being totally upfront with him.
Your friend’s comparison to you indicates emotional deception and possibly ulterior motives in his request for you to come live with him. Sorrow also prevails. However, that may have more to do with his or your professional goals interfering with your relationship. He falls in an area of your chart that deals with unfinished business, karma and dead ends.
Make your choice based on the location that offers you the greatest professional opportunity, and follow your dream vocation, not a partner. You will have plenty of time to reunite with either of these men or to meet someone new in the future. Time is on your side, so use it wisely.
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DEAR EUGENIA: I was born Dec. 29, 1965, at 2 a.m. I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years. He was born Feb. 17, 1970. I love him deeply. But sometimes this relationship can get complicated. We haven’t had sex for three months, and this has never happened before. He is a diabetic, so maybe he doesn’t want sex. But he says he loves me.
Will we ever get married or even live together? He lives with his mom. I also think sometimes that he is cheating on me. What should I do? I have been waiting patiently for him to pop the question for a long, long time. — Patient Sagittarius
DEAR PATIENT SAGITTARIUS: Your comparison is nice, and it’s obvious you have lots of love for each other; however, it is also apparent that your relationship is probably a better friendship than love connection. The comparison shows some emotional deception that is apparent in your chart where living together is concerned. One or both of you are not communicating honestly about the way you feel regarding this matter.
Regarding his running around, without an accurate birth time for him, it’s hard to say. It is possible given the fact his natal Neptune is adversely positioned to his natal Sun and Venus. His diabetic condition may be causing causing physical problems that may be stifling his ability to have sex. This may also be part of the emotional deception I am seeing as he may not be addressing this problem honestly and openly with himself or with you.
It’s time to have a serious talk and make some tough choices.
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DEAR EUGENIA: I was born April 1, 1980, at 3:12 a.m. All my life I’ve had family and trust issue, bad relationships with women and a messy income. In 2008, I met the most kind and supportive women. We have been together for eight years, and we have a beautiful 5-year-old daughter.
I have put her though so much. I was locked up for five years, and she stood by my side. I cheated on her because I just can’t believe that she really waited for me or even loves me like she say she does. I have a real problem with trust, but I really am madly in love with her. I want her to be my wife, but she is at a point where she wants me to change my ways and seek some type of counseling. I really and truly want to build a career and build a family with my child’s mother, but I need help in knowing how to go about this. My girlfriend was born July 3, 1977. I just don’t want to lose her. — Aries
DEAR ARIES: You do have a decent astrological comparison with your Cancer lady, and that is probably why she is giving you a chance to redeem yourself. Any trust issues you have or cheating you do stems from past relationships and the insecurity you have regarding who you are and what you have to offer. The reason you can’t believe she loves you is because you don’t love who you are and you can’t trust yourself not to cheat on her again.
She is right — you do need help. If you love her and you want to make a go of this relationship, sign on the dotted line for as many counseling sessions as she and your counselor feel you need. You are being given a second chance, so don’t blow it. Do what’s required to save this relationship and your family.
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