Give me what I need to help you. Every so often I find it necessary to remind people submitting a request to my Dear Eugenia column that I am not a psychic. If you do not give me the birth information I require to do the mathematical calculation needed to figure out what’s going on in your life or between you and someone else you are wasting both your time and mine.
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Please think before you send me an email that is missing vital information. I receive thousands of requests so making your email stand out as well as supplying me with all the pertinent data is the only way your email will be considered.
DEAR EUGENIA: I was married to a Leo (born July 21, 1997), and our divorce was finalized the other day. We were married 10 years, and we separated because I have a drinking problem. Months after he had me removed from my home and kids, he moved in with a woman (born Aug. 20, 1977). She is now in my home and once was a childhood friend of both my husband and me. She said she was praying for my marriage and ended up stealing my husband. I’m sober now. He’s still drinking, so obviously he’s not healthy for me, but my question for you is will I find anyone who is? He took everything from me in the divorce; will I recover financially, or is the Leo my soul mate even though we are divorced? I was born April 10, 1977, at 2:59 a.m. — Doubting Aries
DEAR DOUBTING ARIES: The past few years haven’t been the best for you, but you have managed to come through and overcome your addiction to alcohol, so kudos to you. If it’s any consolation to you, your astrological chart matches up better to your husband than his new girlfriend mentally and emotionally. As a matter of fact, the comparison between the two of them shows deception, so I’m sure the relationship they have has not been built on honesty and trust.
As for you, life goes on. You began a transit late last summer that is conducive to finding love or having someone from your past come back into your life. This transit will be with you until the summer, so take advantage of this period and sign up for reputable dating sites or activities you enjoy, and you will find love. You match up best to the signs Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius and Aquarius.
You are also in a nice professional cycle and should do your utmost to get ahead and build your assets back to where they belong. Any uncertainty you have regarding your children should be addressed. You’ve come a long way and you need to make up for your past mistakes and any unfortunate feelings that may have developed with your kids. Start anew and do not look back.
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DEAR EUGENIA: I’m 31 years old, born April 5, 1983, at 7:18 p.m., and I just lost my mom to cancer. Prior to her death, she encouraged me to follow my dreams and find a partner who truly loves me for who I am and not what I can do for her. I want both so bad, but I feel so lost and am in search of direction. I am a lesbian. I have always been a loner, but also very sociable at work. What can you tell me to help me in my career choice and my love life? — Need to Move Forward
DEAR NEED TO MOVE FORWARD: Where your professional situation is concerned, you should be focusing on that wholeheartedly between now and the fall. You have favorable work-related transits moving through your chart that can help you make strategic moves in a direction that will bring you greater advancement over the next two to three years. It’s important for you to manipulate your situation by picking up any skills or credentials you need to move forward quickly.
Regarding love, you will be moving into a much better cycle come fall; it will last for approximately a year. This doesn’t mean that you won’t meet someone prior to this time, but it does mean that you will have a better chance of turning a relationship into a long-term, meaningful encounter during that period.
You match up well to partners born under the sign Taurus and Scorpio; however, you should always have an astrological comparison cast before you give your heart away.
You were experiencing a very difficult Saturn transit over the past three years that resulted in personal loss (your mother) and depression, along with an inability to attract love. That has passed, and you can now attract potential partners.
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DEAR EUGENIA: I am a 23-year-old single mom of two boys. I was born Jan. 11, 1992, at 2:45 a.m. Since the new year started, it seems liked everything is going backward. I lost my job, and I feel so confused. I had everything planned out on how I was going to work full time and go to school full time. I want to work and I love to work, but I’m not sure what to do now. What does my astrological chart say about my work prospects this year? Will everything work out for me?
Also, I have been single for about 2 1/2 years. There’s this one guy who has been in my life since last April, and he hasn’t left me yet. He was born Oct. 21, 1987. I don’t know if he wants anything more than a friendship with me. I care about him a lot, but I don’t want to waste time. Am I wasting my time? Is he not with me for the long haul or the right reasons? I’m lost, confused and need some clarity. — Lost and Confused Capricorn
DEAR LOST AND CONFUSED CAPRICORN: The area of your chart that deals with how you earn your living was hit hard in the past 18 months, so what transpired was probably coming down the pipeline long before you realized and were let go. That has now lifted, and you are in a period of learning, acquiring more skills and credentials, etc. This transit came into play beginning last August, so you are a little behind in getting things started educationally if you aren’t already taking courses. You should be trying to get the additional educational pursuits behind you by the fall when you come into a period lasing a year that is excellent for career advancement.
As for your love life, your Libra man isn’t the one for you. Although you do have a mental and physical connection, there is also a lack of substance to this relationship, along with some emotional deception. It is apparent that in some ways he has helped you, but when it comes to a commitment, you should be considering a Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio or Capricorn. You have been in a high cycle regarding love since last fall and will continue to be in one until late spring; however, as long as you have your Libra standing in your doorway, it isn’t likely you will meet someone new.
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